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Issue 137, May 31, 2006
David DeFord, publisher
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U.S. Library of Congress
ISSN: 1547-6235

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I have a funny story about today's article. I ran it many months ago. A few days later, as I checked into a hotel in Dallas, the desk clerk wished me a nice stay and hoped that I could get the shower adjusted properly. She had looked up my website out of curiosity when she saw my unusual e-mail address on the reservation. She made me feel like a celebrity.

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Today's Article: Hotel Showers and Life

by David DeFord

Goal achievement, by its very nature, takes you out of your routine.

To achieve the higher results you desire you must change your ways and move into unfamiliar territory. You try new approaches and when you donít get the desired results you adjust and try again.

Because I spend considerable time away from home, I often use unfamiliar hotel room showers. At home I know exactly where I need to set the knobs to get the shower temperature I want. But on the road I cannot get the results I want if I adjust the knobs exactly like I would at home.

I take a guess and turn the knobs to an initial position. If, when I test the water with my hand I find it too hot, I donít give up in disgust and wash at the sinkóI adjust the knobs and try again.

I continue testing and adjusting, testing and adjusting until I get the water to the right temperature. I have yet to stay in a hotel room where I wasnít able to get the water to the temperature I want.

When you strive to achieve your goals and leave your familiar ways, you will rarely hit your targets on your first tries. When you fail to achieve your goals on the first try, you must not give up in disgust and decide the goal was flawed. You must test and adjust, test and adjust until you reach your dreams.

Keep at it.

Donít adjust your dreams, adjust your approach.

With persistence and continual tweaking you will get your life to a setting you love.

Related Quotes

Progress always involves risk; you can't steal second base and keep your foot on first. Frederick Wilcox

Why not go out on a limb? Isn't that where the fruit is? Frank Scully

Major improvements follow minor adjustments. David DeFord

The person who is waiting for something to turn up might start with their shirt sleeves. Garth Henrichs

You control your future, your destiny. What you think about comes about. By recording your dreams and goals on paper, you set in motion the process of becoming the person you most want to be. Put your future in good handsóyour own. Mark Victor Hansen

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