by David DeFord
Fourteen-year-old junior high student, JoPhena Simpson had to leave school to have a baby. While she was off school, she made up her mind to become a nurse.
As I write this, I realize the incredible understatement in the last paragraph. When JoPhena makes up her mind, she really makes up her mind! She is the perfect example of the quote by William Feather,
“Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go.”
We can all learn about perseverance from Ms. Simpson.
After delivering her baby, JoPhena returned to finish junior high school, and then high school. Initially rejected by nursing school, she tried again and received acceptance.
The classes seemed impossible—shaking her confidence. Her stress grew. But she kept pressing herself.
She took a semester off after she lost her father, her brother and her grandmother in one year. The strain caused her to re-evaluate her dream. Career placement test results suggested she consider nursing. So she returned to school.
Graduating in 1998, this remarkable woman lacked the $175 to register for her licensing exam. In an Omaha World-Herald column, Rainbow Rowell praised JoPhena’s perseverance, and highlighted her financial need. Generous readers donated the exam registration funds.
She also failed in her second and third tries.
“I became really discouraged—more so than I’ve ever been. It was like I failed. Even though I had completed nursing college, I felt like a failure.” But she kept attacking.
She knew the material, but struggled with test anxiety.
Before her fourth test, she felt ready. A year of preparation and professional test preparation classes gave her more confidence than she had in her first three attempts.
“I just knew I would be able to pass,” she said. “And I didn’t.”
Each time she took the test, it seemed harder than the last. What would I have done? What would you have done?
As she has done for the last 25 years, when as a pregnant 14-year-old she made up her mind to become a nurse, she kept pushing herself.
In February of 2004, JoPhena Simpson took the nursing exam for the fifth time—more than five years after her graduation. This time she passed it.
This remarkable lady has shown us how circumstances and conditions cannot keep a fully committed person from achievement.
When one of your goals proves unexpectedly difficult, think of JoPhena’s never-say-die attitude.
What a tremendous example she has set for her three children—and for us all.
Thanks to Rainbow Rowell of the Omaha World-Herald for her help.
"I do not think there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance. It overcomes almost everything, even nature." John D. Rockefeller
"Defeat is simply a signal to press onward." Helen Keller
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